How do I overcome my husbands cheating on me and spending on leisure? Im born again - Rosemary /Nakuru?

We are offically married and hes been transferred to a different town. It seems he has an affair with some women. When asked he denied. Twice I have found him with condom pack and the answer given is that he is a peer educator. I love him so much and not ready to loose him. But he is very arrogant and proud and I thing he derives pleasure in hurting me. He well paid and doesnt invest on anything. The assets he has, has come about due to my sacrife and well management. I also employed and can manage my finances so well. Am hardly bankrupt. But I. Apart from paying school fees for his children he does nothing other than leisure with women. Please help
How do I overcome my husbands cheating on me and spending on leisure? Im born again - Rosemary /Nakuru?
You never had this man. He is disrespectful and except for a marriage license he's not married to you.



Married men who love and respect their wives don't cheat.



He doesn't respect you.....so you should respect yourself enough to get rid of him and move on with your life.



Born again does not mean you're deaf-blind-stupid.
Reply:He's an azz, lose him. You don't love him, you love the person you wish he was...that person doesn't exist.



Have more respect for yourself than to tolerate disrespect from the person who is supposed to love you above all others.
Reply:why be married at all. go your own ways and go find someone to be happy with.
Reply:You need to leave and get on with your life. I wish you the best of luck!!
Reply:Listern when a mand leaves his parents home to marry they become as one its hard for some people to be seprated from their spouse and they look for someone to share quality time with. Sounds like to me your being taken advantage of

christian or not its wrong. Do what makes you happy.

best of luck
Reply:you know what you need to do ,you don't need a bunch of strangers at this yahoo site to tell you what you already no what to do
Reply:Where does it say in the rules of being born again, that you have to let your husband walk over you like a doormat? I'm a born again Christian, and I live with the wisdom and good sense God has given to me. He did say for better or worse, but he didn't say for adultery!